tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post5199561296942985075..comments2023-03-25T07:11:17.808-07:00Comments on Stu(art): I don’t fancy a big fat Indian wedding – Is that so bad?.Stuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-64692022785121260462014-01-12T08:39:25.093-08:002014-01-12T08:39:25.093-08:00These are my thoughts exactly! and you know what, ...These are my thoughts exactly! and you know what, you will get there, because you still have that passion somewhere in your heart and one day you will set out. <br />About the big fat wedding, seriously, why do we spend so much money on strangers when it only about the happiness of two people! Mohanahttp://www.throughthelanes.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-45785677973722238412012-12-11T11:19:26.499-08:002012-12-11T11:19:26.499-08:00well thank u Uma (I love the name Uma btw) for suc...well thank u Uma (I love the name Uma btw) for such a meaningful insight,, i will make sure that I stick to it.. n also thanks for visiting.. do keep visiting... !!!Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-38001245419365786512012-12-11T11:03:24.439-08:002012-12-11T11:03:24.439-08:00Hi Stutee... First time on your blog, and I had to...Hi Stutee... First time on your blog, and I had to comment.. <br /><br />A big fat wedding is all very nice, and realization of ones dreams and all that,but what comes after? Nothing much, really.. When you settle down to your routine life, it will become just as mundane as anything else. And since you are open to it, you can always come back to it at a later stage in your life.. But backpacking across the world, you are not going to be able to do that once you are saddled with a significant other, my dear.. Atleast, the chances of it are much slimmer... Realize your dream, Do what you want to.. Know that marriage (and with it comes oodles of domestic responsibility) can wait and be just as fun at a later stage too, but these things probably can not... If you do not take the time to realize your dream now, you may think back on this all your life, and 'wish you had'... Umanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-27065364551354857192012-12-11T02:06:09.488-08:002012-12-11T02:06:09.488-08:00aww thanks Parth,, i will not give up,, don't ...aww thanks Parth,, i will not give up,, don't u worry. I will survive this torture and come out a winner<br />:-)Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-81094189487608782522012-12-10T22:52:58.163-08:002012-12-10T22:52:58.163-08:00u knw stutee....try nt meeting ur mom's intere...u knw stutee....try nt meeting ur mom's interest in ur marriage with indignation and resentment.the causative effects of continuous negation of the idea of marriage will only juxtapose her notion abt the futile nature of the institution dat, she deems u hold.a candid discussion pertaking ur desire to explore this world,whr u r the behemoth of ur own wishes and nt under any scrutiny,which cn happen only if u r single.explain her ...the day u fixate on the rit person,or u feel u r ready to walk along wid som1 hand in hand chosen by them,u shall happily bow to their wishes.bt if u ask me fr my view take ur time,marriage can wait....bt the magnificent youth will surely pass,so exploit the youthfulness in knowing,gathering,observing...this amazing piece of art-THE WORLD....GIRLS LESS PRIVILEGED ARE INSPIRED BY GIRLS LIKE U....LEAD THE WAY.PARENTS THEY ARE THE BEST ,THEY WILL UNDERSTAND.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05682942421615298699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-12503110634717179522012-12-10T19:43:26.339-08:002012-12-10T19:43:26.339-08:00first of all,, thanks a zillion for taking out tim...first of all,, thanks a zillion for taking out time for my blog.. u have absolutely no idea how happy it makes me feel that u do it...AND second of all please o please trade roles wid my mom till d time the ''ryt one'' comes along.... coz believe me u,, she will get me married otherwise.Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-81484057438568573472012-12-10T11:12:08.252-08:002012-12-10T11:12:08.252-08:00out of my very horrendous schedule...i dnt lament ...out of my very horrendous schedule...i dnt lament reading ur posts and eulogizing it with a comment.the big fat indian wedding is a lame duck affair acc to me,whr the bride and groom are mysteriously self proclaimed shahrukh and kajol fr the day...whn what really matters in the future is the sanctity of the bond which is impervious of all predicaments.ur desire is amazingly surreal,if social bondage is excused.instead of living a lacklusture life,ur desire to explore,imbibe....the real world with a pair of lens and boots is brilliant.marrige with someone with the same mental wavelength cn be overwhelmingly a beautiful life long affair,till then the world deserves to be known,and MOM deserves to be told-'LET THE RIT ONE IN'........BEAUTIFUL JOB STUTEE Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05682942421615298699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-20425597940071041532012-12-09T04:56:12.768-08:002012-12-09T04:56:12.768-08:00@Talitha
You don't have to believe me but I ac...@Talitha<br />You don't have to believe me but I actually feel pumped to move my butt.. thanksStuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-23690329073523515132012-12-09T04:55:19.015-08:002012-12-09T04:55:19.015-08:00@ sanjana
no, no not saying that I dont want it at...@ sanjana<br />no, no not saying that I dont want it at alll.. but not just as yet..<br />n yep, you'd know better about Istanbul,, given how much u've traveled ..<br />My first choice was Kabul actually (I find Afghanistan extremely beautiful and intriguing- How I wish things were better there)..but somehow could not picture myself clad in boots.. so switched to something less political.Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-19759501714258888702012-12-09T02:15:53.067-08:002012-12-09T02:15:53.067-08:00Go then...like Nike,or is it Reebok says-Just do i...Go then...like Nike,or is it Reebok says-Just do it!<br />Really,when you wanna go,just get up and go..and what's stopping you anyway??<br />The job??Take a break.<br />The family??Nah,you can make them understand in a logical lawyerly way that they won't be able to say a word against you!<br />Can't think of anything else!<br />Talithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05775247570828582336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-67062463116655669632012-12-08T21:59:09.930-08:002012-12-08T21:59:09.930-08:00*grin* Good luck babe! It's not an easy path t...*grin* Good luck babe! It's not an easy path to take, the one away from marriage and kids. <br /><br />Btw, don't expect toothless grins from kids and shy ladies in Istanbul... it's a very cosmopolitan city and the people are very trendy and stylish, though the city itself is ancient and beautiful! <br />Maybe you can experience what you said in Cappadocia (also in Turkey). :) Sanjanahttp://hereslookingatme.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-81992987337605407342012-12-08T08:02:51.239-08:002012-12-08T08:02:51.239-08:00@Talitha
That is the problem na.. I want to do all...@Talitha<br />That is the problem na.. I want to do all this alone.. just by myself.. the whole thing boils down to that...<br /><br />and north-east... nice!Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-68253052923512607882012-12-08T08:01:44.238-08:002012-12-08T08:01:44.238-08:00@ Deepika - am not surprised.. all of us have to g...@ Deepika - am not surprised.. all of us have to go thru this at one point or another after allStuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08424539505746852888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-14010885250864418732012-12-07T04:01:00.574-08:002012-12-07T04:01:00.574-08:00How,how I'm wondering...now you even have the ...How,how I'm wondering...now you even have the exact same dreams as mine!<br />except I wanna go to the north-east with the heavy rains and sweet people...<br />About the wedding-<br />It's like this line from Revolution 2020(even though Chetan Bhagat isn't exactly quotable quote material!)-<br />At first it's Study Study Study<br />And after that,Marry Marry Marry.<br />But things will work out for you dear...Get married to a rugged camping guide!<br />Talithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05775247570828582336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-801860910017145801.post-42829011357995128442012-12-07T03:37:57.765-08:002012-12-07T03:37:57.765-08:00okkkk dis is like ditto sentiments...lol..okkkk dis is like ditto sentiments...lol..Deepikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09192015386191957837noreply@blogger.com